My Wife Collects N500 From Me Before Sex - Man Tells Court

A 7-year old marriage has ended due to the wife asking for money before any sexual intercourse can talk place in the home.

 Mutiatu Olaosebikan, , the woman in question, allegedly collects money from her husband before sex. An Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Wednesday dissolved the union.

Delivering his judgment, the President of the court, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, said

“Since both parties had consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage.
“The court pronounce the marriage between Mr Sunday Olaosebikan and Mrs Mutiatu Olaosebikan dissolved today, both parties henceforth cease to be husband and wife.
“Both are free to go their separate ways without any hindrance or molestation,” he said.

Custody of the only child the marriage produced was granted to the mother.

Mr Sunday Olaosebikan, told the court that his wife had always refused him sex until she collected at least N500 and that he was tired of paying N500 per bout before having sex with his wife, NAN reports.

“My lord, she once stabbed me with a broken bottle on my head and I bled heavily which landed me in the hospital.
“Mutiatu places her kitchen knife under her pillow and when I queried her, she said her pastor instructed her to use it anytime she had bad dreams.
“But whenever I requested for sex or during an argument, she brings out the knife threatening to stab me,’’ he said.

“I ran away from the house to avoid untimely death.
“Also because of her bad behaviour, she could not get a steady job.”

Mutiatu, on her part had some things to say about her husband and his sexual act. According to her:

“My husband no longer releases sperm into me when we have sex. He is in the habit of pouring his sperm on the floor, he does not want me to get pregnant again.
“He started this withdrawal method five years ago; I only have one child who is six years old; now, he can go more than six rounds, but will never release the sperm into me, instead he pours it on the floor.
“Whenever I queried him about the withdrawal method, he could not give a satisfactory answer,’’ she said.

The respondent said her husband was an “untamed chatterbox,’’ who cannot keep the family secrets.

“There was a day I was attacked spiritually and blood was gushing out of my eyes, nose and mouth.
“When I was rushed to a prayer house, I was told that my husband caused the sickness because he talks too much about our affairs in the public,’’ she said.

The 34-year-old trader also described her husband as tight-fisted as she has been the one taking care of their baby from birth.

“My husband turned me into a punching bag that anytime we had misunderstandings, he would beat the hell out of me.”

She urged the court to grant her husband’s request for the dissolution of the marriage as she was also tired of the
union.